Include details like why you were attracted to them in the first place, how you feel when you’re around them, and how you envision your future together. An email would also work, but there’s something old-fashioned and romantic about a letter.

Try an over-the-top compliment like “You’re the most gorgeous man on the planet. " It will make them feel special and let them know that you only have eyes for them. Or tell them something simple and sincere like “I can spot your smile from across the room” or “your eyes are the most beautiful shade of blue, I could stare at them all day. "

If they have more knowledge on a certain topic, asking for their advice will flatter their ego, while also being beneficial to you, for example, when buying a car or new laptop. Ask for their advice on something relatively unimportant like whether you should buy the new Playstation or Xbox. They may not care all that much, but they’ll appreciate you asking. For more serious matters, such as medical procedures or living arrangements, asking for your partners input is definitely recommended. If you fail to let them in on big decisions such as these, they may feel left out or unappreciated.

Refusing to say you’re sorry will only cause tension and resentment. Even if you think you did nothing wrong, swallow your pride and say the words. Your relationship is worth it.

If you’re not so creative, find some romantic words written by someone else and send your loved ones those instead. Look for romantic poems or letters written by great writers, such as Shakespeare, Lord Byron or Emily Dickinson. Alternatively, try dedicating a song to them. Whether it’s before you sing on karaoke night or calling a request in to their favorite radio station, a song dedication is always romantic.

There are, however, a number of notable exceptions to this rule. Providing answers to the questions “does this make me look fat?” and “what do you think of my parents?” being two such exceptions.

Try to make sure that you send flowers that your partner likes. Sure, it’s the thought that counts, but you’ll get extra points for choosing the right flowers. If you don’t know their favorite varieties and want to go for something classic instead, you really can’t go wrong with red roses.

Think of things like a coupon for a romantic dinner, a coupon for one hundred kisses, or a coupon for a sensual massage. Alternatively, they could be coupons for everyday activities such as a passes on doing the dishes or walking the dog, even if it’s their turn. This isn’t as romantic, but your partner will surely appreciate them nonetheless.

Before framing, date the picture and perhaps write a little note on the back. Then choose a pretty frame, and wrap it in a box or just tie a ribbon around it. Make sure it’s a photo of themselves that they like. They won’t want to display it if they have something in their teeth or their eyes are half closed. Present it in a pretty frame.

Choose a bunch with your partner’s favorite colors and tie with vivid ribbons. The louder the better. Make sure to get helium balloons, they look happier than the non-floating type.

You’ll need to be selfless with this one - even if it’s something that bores you to tears, like ballet or monster trucks. The point is that it’s something they like. Make sure their schedule is free before you buy the tickets. Even if they appreciate the thought, it’ll be disappointing if they’re not able to make it.