Ask your wife if she likes massages, or foot rubs, or something else. She may surprise you by saying something you didn’t expect, such as “playing with my hair. " Suggest romantic activities that you can do together, like taking dancing lessons, or ask her what activities she would enjoy.

Specific compliments about a new haircut or blouse will go a long way as well. Let her know that she looks great!

Write her a sweet thank-you card every so often to show that you appreciate everything she does for you.