You can play around with size by choosing different sized socks. For example, crew socks are bigger than ankle socks, so they’ll likely create a bigger bulge.

If you wear a jockstrap, you can wear regular boxers without worrying your packer will move out of place.

You can also use other STP devices to pee standing up if you don’t want to invest in a packer that allows this or just prefer a different type of packer. It’s perfectly normal to not want to stand while you pee, so don’t feel like you have to use one of these devices if you don’t feel that it’s right for you. You are still welcome to use the men’s or boys’ bathroom, just understand that this means other guys will be peeing in the urinals which is just as perfectly normal for them.

If you’re going swimming, it’s most convenient to wear a packer device, which won’t soak up any water. Alternatively, you might try putting your socks in a plastic zip-up bag.

It may take a few tries to get the bulge you want.

It’s helpful to wear it around your home at first so that you can get used to what it feels like and how it moves before you’re in public.

Additionally, you can find dildos that have a foreskin, if that’s what you prefer.

If you buy a dildo made for packing, it may come with a harness. As another alternative, you can look for a bundle containing both a dildo and a harness.

If you’re having a date night at home, you might enjoy showing off your erection through your pants. If you want to wear your dildo in public, try different positions for hiding your dildo to figure out which one is more comfortable for you. For example, your dildo may be less visible if you push it back between your legs or position it so it’s down against your thigh.

Some pack-and-play devices go from flaccid to hard if you tuck the dildo part of it between your legs when you’re not using it. [11] X Research source

Not washing your device can make it become smelly and may result in an infection. [12] X Research source Always read the cleaning instructions on your packer to make sure you know how to clean it properly, as well as any products to avoid. Cleaning it with the wrong supplies can damage it over time. [13] X Research source