If she isn’t sober, she may: Not walk properly. Mumble or slur her words to the point where she’s hard to understand. Sit quietly at the side of the sidewalk or bar, or even be asleep. Although it may be easier to get a girl who’s under the influence of drugs or alcohol, it’s not only short-sighted and shows a lack of character, but also illegal. A girl who is under the influence is unable to give consent to making out or anything further, and engaging in sexual activities with anyone under the influence is legally considered rape or sexual assault. This doesn’t mean you can’t approach any girl who’s under the influence for any reason; just don’t approach her with sexual intent, which includes actions such as kissing or making out. You can talk to girls under the influence, as long as you don’t take advantage of them being under the influence.
Not everything is a sign that she’s totally uncomfortable with you - for example, when she’s not comfortable with your physical escalation but is still talking to you. These hints indicate that you should tread slowly and carefully.
Avoid getting angry when the girl sets boundaries; you don’t want to take the phrase “bad with rejection” to serious extremes. Nobody has the right to force anyone else into doing something they don’t want to do.
Avoid approaching her by buying her a drink. There are many stories of men slipping date-rape drugs into someone’s drink, so come up with a different approach that won’t immediately make you look like you may be dangerous.
Compliment genuinely. Saying something like “Nice boobs!” or “Great butt!” can creep girls out. Use common sense and tread slowly, and then calibrate on the basis of response from the girls. It also slowly gets you in a social mood.
You don’t have to say things that don’t resonate with your personality or intention. If you did, the words will not be backed by intentions. It helps a lot to say something that you genuinely find it fun or sexual from a non-needy and fun mindset.
Be assertive. It’s very important that you are assertive and lead the conversation. Women are subconsciously very attracted to guys who can lead. Have fun, and get her to have fun too. Smiling and laughing are part of successful flirting.
Touch her hands. Say something like, “Let me see your hands. I want to compare the sizes of our hands”. Hug her. A good way to know if she is comfortable with you is to hug her first. If she pushes you off or doesn’t hug you back, though, she’s probably not comfortable. Try kissing her. If she is comfortable with hugging, try going for a kiss on her cheek, and if she’s comfortable with that, then a peck on the lips. If she backs up or starts talking the second you get close to her face, she’s not comfortable with a kiss. Never touch or kiss a girl without her consent.
Read the subtle hints to know if she wants to hook up. Asking her crudely (such as “Wanna bang?”) will make her feel like a slut because of societal conditioning. Practice reading subtle hints to know if she’s ready or not. However, don’t take these hints as signs of consent; always ask her directly if she wants to have sex. If she says no, respect it. Continuing with the absence of consent is legally considered rape. Protect both of you against STDs, and her against pregnancy.
Don’t treat them badly, either, like some “bad” boys do. Treat them right and with respect.
Machine gunning. Approach and talk to bunch of people in a small amount of time. Doesn’t matter who; it doesn’t have to be girls, just talk to random people. Push-ups. Do push-ups right where you are, busy streets, malls, public places. Lie down on the sidewalk. Dance in the middle of street or in front or random people. Don’t just approach all the attractive girls, but approach everyone. It could be guys, bartenders, old people. It’s yielding to approach everyone, as it not only keeps you in a social mood but also catalyze the transition from unsocial mood to approaching attractive girls.
