Catch her eye from across the room. Be flirty and hold her gaze if she notices you, and even give her a big smile. When you approach her, turn your body towards her, stand tall, and lean in towards her slightly, showing that your body is giving her its full attention. Lightly touch her on the arm or back if she seems up for it. Maintain eye contact while you’re talking. She should feel like she’s the only girl in the world – for a few minutes.
Compliment her appearance. Go for subtlety with this one. Instead of “Damn, you look hot,” just say, “Blue is a great color. It really brings out your eyes. " Compliment her laugh or her smile. Tease your way into a compliment. Find a way to playfully poke fun at her while complimenting her at the same time.
Ask her a flirty question. If she mentions she has a sister, say, “Is she as beautiful as you are?” Ask her a silly question but act like it’s really important. Ask her what she thinks of men who are in love with their dogs or men who wear leather. Ask her something about herself. Ask about one of her hobbies or what she likes to do for fun. Make the girl think you care about her – just a little bit.
Find a way to mention the girl every few minutes. Don’t do it every few seconds or it will be too annoying, but make it sound like you’re constantly thinking of the other girl. Find ways to complement the other girl. Without being too obnoxious, say things like, “She’s like, my favorite person,” or “She can get any guy she wants. " Make the other girl feel inferior. You can also make this person up. If you’re a good liar, this “other girl” can be completely fictional. Repeatedly say, “You should really meet her. I think you’d get along. " This will drive the other girl crazy.
Mention a party you went to where there were so many amazing girls. You can even say that you were one of the few guys there but that it was okay – you’re used to it. Talk about a fun weekend trip you took to the beach, and mention how all the girls you were with were wearing the most ridiculous bikinis. Just mention “this one girl I was seeing” after another. Make it sound like you go on a ton of dates. Just make sure not to sound gross or like a total player. The girl will lose interest if you make yourself out to be too much of a Lothario.
Check your phone from time to time and smile to yourself, as if you’ve just received a naughty message from a girl. Say, “Excuse me” and smile as you type back something that may be equally naughty. Have your phone ring once while you’re talking to the girl. Pick it up and say, “Hey, how are you? Can I call you back?” Don’t overdo it and call the girl “honey” or “baby” over the phone. Just make it clear that you’re talking to another sexy lady from the tone of your voice. Don’t overuse the phone tactic. A girl’s patience will quickly wear if you spend all of your time on your phone.
Whether you’re at a party or a bar, just pick a girl near you and start talking to her. Slowly transition from talking to the original girl to being absorbed by the new girl completely. Make sure you look like you’re laughing and have a great time. Take the other girl to the dance floor. Don’t make out with her or grope her. Just dance with her for a song or two and look like you’re having a great time. Pick a pack of girls to hang out with. Make them laugh and let the other girl watch.
Make all of the friends like you. Be your most witty, charming, and charismatic self. Make a point of ignoring the original girl in front of her friends. Even if she’s standing right in front of you, act like she’s not there. Don’t isolate the friends too much. Try to get all of them to like you while you flirt it up. If you pay too much attention to a close friend of the girl’s and she starts to like you, then you may create unwanted drama.
Acknowledge the original girl with a small nod or a smile as you walk out. Let her know that you know she’s watching you.
If the girl you want to make jealous sees you with another girl, make sure to look completely focused on the girl you’re with. When you “finally” notice jealous girl, you can say, “Oh, I didn’t even see you there. " Of course you didn’t – you were too busy having fun with another girl. Pick places where you know jealous girl will be. Parade into her favorite cafe or dining spot with a gaggle of girls and look like you’re having as much fun as possible. If you have a class together, sit away from her and next to another girl, and let her see you whispering to the other girl and doodling in the margins of her notes.
If you’re using other girls at a bar or at a party to make the girl jealous, don’t spend all night talking to them and then ignore her. Come back to the girl you want after a few minutes, before she loses patience. Once you see that the girl is really interested, stop talking about other girls or chatting up other girls in the vicinity. The chase is over – for now.
