Wake up just a few minutes before your partner, turn off the alarm clock, and gently kiss their cheek to wake them. If you are apart for some reason and cannot offer physical love, try sending loving text messages for your partner to wake up to.
Full body massages are great ways to build the tension and feel intimate and connected.
Hold the door for your partner, and as she walks by, place your hand on the small of her back. When you are waiting in line at the bank, face each other and embrace in a hug. Do not be inappropriate in public, as it can be illegal when taken too far.
Talk to each other about your likes and dislikes in bed. Learn your partner’s turn-ons, and do your best to make them happy.
When your partner shares their fantasy, do not judge them; instead play along. You both have to be fully engaged and committed to each fantasy to increase the pleasure. [5] X Research source
When you communicate with your partner, try to frame things positively. For example, if you did not like that your partner said you would attend their work event without asking, instead of saying “Don’t make my decisions for me," say something like, “I love to support you in your job, however I would really appreciate it if we could discuss going to social events before you RSVP. ”
Other acts of kindness could include sending love texts while at work, writing “you are beautiful” on the mirror, packing their lunch the night before, or cleaning the house. [6] X Research source
Become aware of your own flaws and recognize you are not perfect to help you accept your partner’s flaws. Be respectful of your partner and their flaws. If they are chronically late, respect that it is their decision to be late, but allow yourself to be on time.
Go on dates that allow you to participate as a couple such as dancing, kayaking, or building a fort.
Try to just change your setting as much as possible. By being with your partner in a different environment, you may see them in a different light. Going on trips can also test your relationship by revealing your compatibility, showing how you manage each other when you are together 24/7. [11] X Research source
Have a “girl’s or boy’s night” and hang out with your own group of friends. You can talk about things you wouldn’t necessarily discuss with your partner, and you will be reminded of yourself as an individual, instead of yourself in a partnership.
Give gifts in moderation. Do not buy every item that reminds you of your partner. Purchase gifts that are fiscally responsible. Buying your partner a red Mercedes is not practical and could get you into financial trouble.
