New piercings are especially sensitive. [2] X Research source If a piercing is new, tugging or excessive movement could make it more prone to infection. [3] X Trustworthy Source Mayo Clinic Educational website from one of the world’s leading hospitals Go to source
People that have had piercings for a long time may feel no pain when you tug, and may actually find it to be sensual. You can say something like “Hey, does this hurt? Do you want me to kiss you softer?”
Studs can create a pleasurable sensation when they make contact with skin.
You can say something like “I like kissing you, but my piercing is painful when you pull on it. Can you please be more gentle?”
Tongue piercings take 3 to 6 weeks to heal fully but vary from person to person. [7] X Research source A lip piercing typically takes anywhere from 6 to 8 weeks to fully heal. [8] X Research source Labret and Monroe piercings take 2 to 6 months to heal fully.
If your tongue or mouth begins to turn white, keep mouthwash usage to a minimum. [10] X Research source You can ask your partner also to use an antiseptic mouthwash before kissing you to reduce the chance of infection.