Sometimes when a woman is communicating a problem, she does not necessarily want your advice on how to solve it, she simply wants you to listen. Use body language and gestures to demonstrate that you are paying attention. For example, using good eye contact and leaning forward are ways to communicate that you are interested in the conversation. Never interrupt because it can appear as though you do not value what is being said.
To make sure that you are clear on what has happened, repeat what she has said to ensure that you are on the same page.
Trust and reliability are critical components of any relationship and is especially important if you want to maintain deep connection with someone. [2] X Research source
Get her to open up about her feelings with questions such as: “How do you feel about what happened?” This type of open-ended question will allow her to communicate her feelings so that you can better understand each other.
Instead of dismissing a woman’s emotional response, try to get an understanding of what is causing her response.
You should also avoid being controlling and allow her to be her own person by not trying to dictate how she should live her life. [5] X Research source
There are many aspects of a woman besides her physical appearance that deserves attention. Consider complimenting her intelligence, sense of humor, creativity, cooking skills, or compassion for others.
In the beginning of a relationship, you do not have to put all of your cards on the table right away because you might scare her away. However, if you feel like both of you are moving at the same pace, you can share your feelings and encourage her to do the same.
Kind words, a nice greeting card, or a gift are all ways to celebrate her achievements.
Set aside your point of view and be open to another perspective.
