You should also feel like you can safely share your secrets with her.

If you’re using dating websites to find a match, don’t just rely on her profile photo to gauge her attractiveness. Check out her interests and passions. Send her a private message to introduce yourself. Try to get a feel for her personality from your exchanges.

Look for single ladies that participate in the same (or similar) activities you’re interested in. It’s easy to be yourself around someone who understands your passions! If you’re using a dating website, look for someone who shares some of the same hobbies.

Someone who has a similar career would be a good match if being supportive is high on your list of ideal qualities. She’ll understand and share your frustrations and your enthusiasm for the work.