They spend time only with other members, pushing everyone else away They don’t trust anyone other than their “superiors” within the group They try to convince family and friends to be a part of their group They don’t have normal conversations about anything other than “God,” their group leaders, or the “salvation” available only within the group
Someone facing instability in their lives Bright people with no sense of direction People facing problems such as a bad breakup or personal failure People with problems at home
Check out the International Cultic Studies Association for resources on helping cult survivors. [4] X Expert Source Natalie Feinblatt, PsyDClinical Psychologist Expert Interview. 30 July 2021.
A place with limited internet or phone will be especially helpful in giving them time away from the cult. Use the vacation to have fun, not to press your views onto the person. The conclusion that the cult isn’t perfect needs to come from the person.
For example, say “I can tell you really respect Pastor Johnson. Can you tell me more?"[11] X Research source If they ask you to join the cult, listen respectfully. If they press you to make a decision, say that you need more time to make a thoughtful decision.
“How do you feel about the group limiting what you are allowed to wear?” “What do you think about the group only allowing you to date certain people?” “I heard that your leader predicted that the world would end last year. I don’t know what to think of that. What are your thoughts?”
If you ask a question, and they don’t know how to answer, let them sit and think.
