Work may be a topic that you find boring, but don’t have to sound like you’re asking her robotic questions at a job interview when you talk to her about hers. In fact, with some creativity (and an air of gentle mischief), you can add a little flirty zest to these normally dry questions. Here are just a few examples: Bland questions: “Where do you work?” “What do you do?” “Do you enjoy that?” “Where do you see yourself in five years?” Zesty questions: “So, what’s your plan for making your first million?” “What’s your next step in life?” “Are you more of a Gordon Gekko person or a Lorenzo Anello person?”

Blunt brags: “You see these shoes? These are real alligator skin. " “We should go cruising in my new Bugatti this weekend. " “I just won employee of the month at my dad’s real estate business for the fifth time in a row!” Subtle sweet-talking: “I’m hoping to use my signing bonus to do something nice for us. " “I only wear this watch on special occasions — I bought it for myself when I got my Master’s. " “I don’t usually do this, but I like to enjoy something nice after things go well at work. "

Good date ideas: Bowling, cards, mini golf, shooting/archery, arcade games, board games with drinks. Bad date ideas: Street racing, one-on-one street rules basketball, high-stakes poker. If you’re dominating at your competition, it may be a good idea to let your date win at least once at whatever you’re doing to prevent embarrassment. Try not to make it too obvious that you’re letting her win — this can be more embarrassing than losing in the first place.

The ideal practical gift for a Capricorn woman depends on her personal hobbies and interests. For instance, if she enjoys drawing, try getting her a high-quality sketch pad and a set of professional pencils. If she’s a natural-born athlete, get her a membership to an exclusive gym with the finest exercise equipment. There’s no “right” answer here — it all depends on the woman.

Good date ideas: Museums, operas, fancy restaurants, film festivals, art shows, weekend getaways, wineries, etc. Short on cash? It’s possible to enjoy the finer things in life on the cheap if you’re creative. For instance, try checking a local university’s “events” website — it will usually be possible to see traveling speakers, attend book signings, and more for very cheap or even free.

Do either of you plan on getting married in your lifetime? Do either of you want kids? Do either of you want pets? When do you want to settle down? How much would you like to save and how much would you like to spend? What major purchases would you like to make? How do you plan on living your life?

The language you use around her (especially with regards to crude words, etc. ) The way you speak about her in public The way you talk to your friends about her The minor courtesies you show her (holding her hand to help her up a step, giving her your coat when it’s cold, etc. )

Behaviors you’ll want to avoid: Calling or texting many times per day, frequently asking for confirmations of her affection, acting jealously, attempting to alter her schedule.

Sometimes, life deals difficult hands that force us to become less active than we previously were. For instance, illnesses, family problems, and unexpected layoffs may temporarily force you to take a less active role in achieving your goals. In these cases, don’t give in to feelings of inadequacy — a smart Capricorn woman will be able to tell the difference between someone who won’t work hard for their goals and someone who is temporarily prevented from doing so.

Behaviors you’ll want to avoid: Speaking for your partner at social events, apologizing for her opinions when they differ from yours, violating her privacy or personal space, trying to control her behaviors, etc.

Problems you won’t want to unload on your partner: Depression, substance abuse issues, stress from family conflicts, workplace stress, mental health issues, risky behaviors, poor self-control, difficulties from previous relationships, etc.